Category: Events

  • Mildert Reunion Weekend 2024

    Mildert Reunion Weekend 2024

    In July, Mildert came alive to the sounds of the 70s, 80s, 90s and 00s, as alumni returned for our annual reunion weekend. 

    The weekend began, as all the best memories do, in Mildert bar. After checking into their college rooms, alumni from throughout Mildert’s 59 years gathered for pizza, conversation and astonishingly cheap beer. A large cohort from 1984 settled into a corner to reflect on how Mildert has evolved over the last four decades. More televisions, mainly.

    I left the nostalgia in the bar and headed into town to watch Public Service Broadcasting and the NASUWT brass band peform in Durham Cathedral as part of a jazz festival. It is more than 20 years since I first stepped into that cathedral as a matriculating fresher, yet it still blows me away with its grandeur. The opportunity to see one of my favourite bands perform in that magnificent building was too good to miss.

    I woke on Saturday morning with a surprisingly clear head, so I walked down to Maiden Castle Sports Centre. For a ‘social’ sportsman like me, Maiden Castle is far more associated with exams than with athleticism, but this time I was actually there to exercise.

    The Durham Parkrun starts at Maiden Castle, does a few laps of some nearby fields, then rounds the bend of the river to finish on the racecourse. Few Parkruns can have a backdrop as beautiful as our castle and cathedral, and jogging along that stretch of river took me back to memories of racing there for VMBC.

    While many alumni used the afternoon to reaquaint themselves with the city, those who remained in college enjoyed croquet and giant Jenga on Tees Lawn, accompanied by a BBQ.

    The evening entertainment began when Trent Alexander-Arnold slammed England’s fifth penalty home, firing the Three Lions into the semi final and sending a bar full of Mildert alumni into raptures. The reunion dinner had been delayed a few minutes, allowing both alumni and kitchen staff to see the penalty shootout reach its conclusion.

    Buoyed by the result, we took our seats in the hall and enjoyed a delicious three course dinner. No points system, no meal cards, no gently frozen desserts. Afterwards, the kitchen staff, some of whom remain familiar faces after all these years, received a well-earned round of applause, and we took our bottles of wine through to the bar to continue our conversations.

    Sunday morning brought one final, if not entirely welcome, bit of Mildert nostalgia. Waking up in a college bed with a bleary head and the aftertaste of red wine, it took a few seconds to remind myself that no, I’m not 20 years old and yes, I do need to go to work tomorrow.

    So Van Mildert College is 59 not out… which means that next year is the big one. VM60 is a year long celebration of this wonderful community that has shaped so many lives over the last six decades. The centrepiece will be the next reunion weekend, which promises to be spectacular, so save the date: 4th to 6th July 2025.

  • Carols in the Bar—Manchester

    Following the success of last year’s Carols in the Bar alumni event in Manchester, the date has been set for 2020: Friday 18 December at Gulliver’s Bar on Oldham Street, Manchester. The event replicates the popular Mildert tradition of Carols in the Bar, with a pianist and sing-a-long carols and Christmas classics. Lyrics are provided, along with a welcome drink and nibbles. More details will be published closer to the event.

    Look back at Carols in the Bar 2019
    Our first Carols in the Bar took place on Friday 13 December in Gulliver’s Bar in the Northern Quarter of Manchester. Pianist extraordinaire Pete ‘PJ’ Jacob (Modern Languages, 2001-2006) was on the piano, having travelled up from Derbyshire with his wife, Catherine, to take part. Spirits were high, and after some gentle carols to get people’s voices warmed up, everyone got in the singing!

    There were around 30 people at the event, with different friendship groups mixing and having fun. Several Mildertians were accompanied by their non-Mildert partners to the event, who must have been surprised by how seriously our alumni take singing ‘five gold ringssssssss’ in the twelve days of Christmas. Feedback from the event was very positive, with many alumni connecting with the association for the first time.

    Do you want to host a carols in the bar event?
    Other versions of the carols in the bar have been held previously, including a very successful event at the Barley Mow pub in London in 2009 (at which PJ was once again the Resident pianist!). If you would like to help hosting the event, the VMA would be pleased to hear from you and would support the organisation. Contact vm.development@durham.ac.uk for more details.